There’s a lot of stuff going on in the world at the moment.
If you spend too much time looking for negativity, you’ll find it.
And you’ll feel bad.
This is even truer when it comes to planning your wedding.
Unexpected things will happen.
(Sorry, but they will. Stick with me though, because it’s not all DOOM and GLOOM)
If you spend time dwelling on everything that goes wrong, like it’s a sign from the wedding Gods that your nuptials displease them, you’ll never survive.
(sorry, couldn’t resist!)
Remember WHY you’re getting married.
You’re getting married as a show of love and appreciation for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
That is HUGE!
Everything else? That’s small potatoes.
As long as you guys are there, at the front, saying nice things, that’s all that matters.
So what if the venue used Salmon Pink napkins instead of algae green?
Who cares if the DJ plays “Come on Eileen” even though you asked him not to?
In a few years, you won’t remember the little piddly bits that went wrong or didn’t happen quite as you’d hoped.
You WILL remember that you had an awesome day, surrounded by people that you love and love you back – people who want to share in your joy.
Boris Johnson is PM? So what? I’m STILL going to have an Indian takeaway for tea…